Financial Planning- this is crucial, financial planning must happen and be part of every financial decision. Knowledge is key.
Obtain copies of all financial documents and statements- important to have so that you can review and figure out best financial plan
Ignoring tax consequences- do not ignore the tax consequences: Monthly alimony or lump sum? Sell house, or keep? Should you take the brokerage account, or retirement plan? Keep in mind the tax consequences of such decisions.